Quiet Revolution: Bridges versus Walls

We often feel that if we don't build a wall around our opinions, we are being "weak" or unfaithful to the truth. We treat our beliefs like a fortress to be defended at all costs. But the goal of the Christian life isn't to win a standoff; it’s to win a person. When we build walls, we might protect our pride, but we end up living in isolation. The "Quiet Revolution" asks us to consider a different structure: the bridge.

Key Scripture: Colossians 4:6 (NIV) — "Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone."

In this imagery, Grace is the bridge. It’s the kindness and "unearned favor" we extend to the person we are talking to. It says, "I value you more than I value winning this point." Salt is the conviction—the truth we hold. A bridge without salt is directionless and bland; salt without a bridge is abrasive and impossible to swallow. A wall is built out of contempt, but a bridge is built out of the conviction that the person across from you is worth the effort. You don't have to abandon your "salt" to be gracious.

The Challenge: Look at your current disagreements. Are you using your words to protect yourself (building a wall) or to reach the other person (building a bridge)? Remember: You don't have to sacrifice truth to maintain a connection.